Love and Determination
In a candid revelation on the social media platform X, renowned activist Aisha Yesufu shared an intriguing tale of love and determination. Yesufu unveiled the story of how she pursued the man who would later become her life partner, shedding light on their unique love journey.
My husband can say this and honestly I wouldn’t be bothered. I did see him, fell in love with him and went after him and it took 8 months for him to come around. 🤣
8 months later we were married. So it was a 16 months project! From Dec 13th 1996 to April 17th 1998.
I was 23… https://t.co/gyAmvsMCrq
— Aisha Yesufu (@AishaYesufu) December 22, 2023
On Friday, 22 December 2023, in response to another post, Aisha, recalling the memorable period, humorously stated, “My husband can attest to this without hesitation. I spotted him, felt an undeniable connection, and ardently pursued him. It took a dedicated eight months for him to reciprocate those feelings!” She further revealed that this romantic endeavour with the now-62-year-old Mr Aliu Osigwe Yesufu spanned a timeframe from December 13th, 1996, to April 17th, 1998, amounting to a 16-month project.
The post Ms Yesufu was responding to was about the world’s most decorated gymnast, 26-year-old Simone Biles, whose husband, the American football star Jonathan James Owens, revealed in a video that he was “the catch” as he didn’t know who she was at the time of their first meeting.
#SimoneBiles husband says he didn’t know who she was when they met & says he’s the catch. pic.twitter.com/gnbUFerFot
— The Gworls Are Fighting (@baddietvv) December 21, 2023
Yesufu on Self-worth and Agency
Yesufu doesnt believe in ladies playing hard to get, nor waiting to be approaches by men. At the time of their fateful encounter, Yesufu was 23 years old, while her future spouse was 35. With playful banter, she said often teases him about her proactive approach, jesting, “Had I not taken the initiative, he might’ve missed out on something great!” In a light-hearted rebuttal, her husband fondly reminds her that his deliberation ensured he met her while still single.
Emphasising her independent mindset, Yesufu conveyed a powerful message about self-worth and agency in relationships. “I’ve never subscribed to the notion of passively waiting for a man’s attention,” she asserted, highlighting her belief in choosing a partner based on genuine compatibility rather than societal expectations.
Remarkably, her contentment with singlehood had defied many expectations, making her eventual marriage a delightful surprise to those around her.
Yesufu Championed Women’s Empowerment
In a closing note, Yesufu championed the empowerment of women, encouraging them to embrace their desires boldly. “If you see someone you’re interested in, pursue them with conviction,” she proclaimed, concluding with a heartwarming sentiment that resonates with many: “It’s equally beautiful for him to acknowledge your efforts and recognise that you indeed chased and won his heart.”
Reactions to Aisha Yesufu
Over 300,000 users, more than 10% of Yesufu’s 2 million followers, have seen this post. Their reactions are varied from applause through caution to ridicule. AkweyaTV gives you a selection of them below:
Wrong decision
— MetaLife (@nwabuisi1) December 22, 2023
Very bold step and decision
I did it once and was burnt, not sure I will again
— Testimony (@Testimo08239356) December 22, 2023
Aisha said, “I was burnt a lot of times too. It’s okay. Don’t take it personal. There are many people you have also said no to. It wasn’t personal. Some of the people that said no to me I look back and I ask myself what was I thinking?! Also there are some that said said and when the relationship started I realised this was not the kind of person I wanted and I immediately left.”
So it's right for a woman to toast a man is what you're saying?
— Innocent (@iamAKOSTIK) December 23, 2023
I see some ppl say stuffs like "make sure the man is mature before u move to him". There's no such thing. Y'all just scared of rejection that you dish out. Just like women reject men, men reject women. Just like men jilt women,women jilt men. Go after who you want ladies! Be bold
— Biodrizzy (@Biodrizzy) December 22, 2023
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